We often hear the advice, "Just keep swimming." It is usually offered as encouragement, a reminder that consistency, resilience, and perseverance can carry us through difficult circumstances.

But what if we are swimming in the wrong direction?

Imagine being alone in an ocean, exhausted but determined, repeating the mantra, "Just keep swimming." You continue moving forward, convinced that stopping would mean failure. You do not realise that you are moving further away from shore. You do not realise that the current is carrying you somewhere dangerous, and beneath you, unseen, sharks are circling. At what point does perseverance stop being resilience and become stubbornness?

We often celebrate people who refuse to give up, but persistence without reflection can be destructive. There is a difference between continuing despite difficulty and continuing despite evidence that the direction is wrong.

Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is stop swimming.

Look around. Check the direction. Question the assumptions that brought us there.

Perhaps we have been taught to admire endurance so much that we forget the importance of navigation. A person can work tirelessly toward the wrong goal. A relationship can be maintained long after it has become harmful. A business can continue pursuing a failing strategy simply because abandoning it feels like admitting defeat.

Movement is not necessarily progress. Persistence is not necessarily wisdom.

And stopping is not necessarily failure. Sometimes survival requires us to recognise the sharks before we become more committed to the direction in which we are swimming.

Perhaps the better advice is not simply, "Keep swimming."

It is:

Keep swimming, but occasionally look up, check the horizon, and make sure you are still heading toward where you actually want to go, because consistency without awareness can simply make you consistently wrong.

Thought-provoking reflections on life, identity and relationships, written in the style of a modern-day Socratic journal and told through poetic paradoxes and emotional honesty.

by Paul Strydom.

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